Rocking Out in the Mosh Pit, With Baby in Tow
Ariel Meadow Stallings also considers family time paramount. She took her then-5-year-old son to Beloved, a music-and-art festival in Tidewater, Ore., to share her passion for dancing. “Of course, we can always dance in the living room, but there aren’t many places to dance to a full sound system and light show,” she said. “Music festivals give me the chance to share that part of my life with my favorite person.”
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Lovesick Wedding Expo
“It’s an alternative to the big box, white glove, bridal show,” said Lovesick co-founder Tom Wright. “It’s our fifth year of defying the wedding mainstream.” Wright and Jon Holmes founded the alternative wedding expo in Philadelphia, but partnered with Seattle’s Ariel Meadow Stallings, with Offbeat Bride, to bring the event to the West Coast last year. Lovesick now tours Brooklyn, Philadelphia, Boston, Atlanta, Seattle, Denver, Los Angeles and the Bay Area. McGeough said she was looking for decorating ideas, vendors and was planning for a wedding where “vintage meets crazy,” she said.
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With an Original Score, I Thee Wed
…But you needn’t be a musician marrying into an august musical family to have songs composed or customized for a particular wedding. A Google search reveals numerous songwriters and musical groups offering to write music specifically for a couple’s nuptials.
“I’ve definitely seen an increase of couples doing it, as well as vendors offering it as a service,” said Ariel Meadow Stallings, the founder and publisher of Offbeat Bride, a wedding blog. Taking on these songwriting commissions, she said, is also proving to be a boon for musicians, who are often struggling financially.
Those who have commissioned original music and those who create it say that what most want from original music is something around which their families can coalesce. “It’s an opportunity to create a piece of art that can be part of the family legacy,” Ms. Stallings said. “Almost a musical heirloom.”
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Today in the roll of flower girl: Grandma!
Ariel Meadow Stallings, the founder of Offbeat Bride, a wedding blog that features nontraditional weddings, said that brides selecting grandmothers as attendants is part of a larger trend: couples wanting to include their family members in the wedding, but not in a traditional way.
“For a lot of couples and their families, there’s friction between the traditional role that families play in weddings and the couple’s concerns about where those traditions come from and the feeling that they don’t reflect their lives,” Ms. Stallings said.
Rather than eliminating those roles completely, which can cause family turmoil, she is seeing more couples incorporating family members in ways that highlight those individuals’ character traits or abilities.
Ms. Stallings suggests asking, “How can we celebrate who this person is?”
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Moving Past Traditional to the Science Fictional
…The 2008 wedding of Mr. and Ms. Marovich in San Pablo, Calif., details of which were later posted to Offbeatbride.com, was not the first to contain references to zombies. But it highlighted something of a trend among a certain subset of couples who are looking outside (sometimes way outside) accepted custom.
Ms. Marovich, 35, said she received several e-mails from people who wanted to copy her vows, and the Offbeatbride site has since featured dozens of zombie-themed weddings. So many that the site’s founder and publisher, Ariel Meadow Stallings, said she recently cut back on them, for fear of overexposure.
“It’s being used in ceremonies in ways that aren’t just gimmicky,” she said. “It’s actually kind of a powerful cultural metaphor that people are tapping into.”
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Remember when Mark Zuckerberg had a relatively simple backyard wedding a couple months back? Well, the New York Times ran an article this weekend about that fits into the growing trend of simple weddings, and we were featured:
Over at the wedding site Offbeatbride.com, the publisher, Ariel M. Stallings, said the number of visitors to her Simple Wedding archive has grown since the Zuckerberg-Chan event … “The backyard is the new ballroom,” said Amy Kaneko, an events planner in San Francisco.
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From Let Them Eat Cinnamon Buns:
Ariel Meadow Stallings, the founder and publisher of Offbeat Bride, a wedding blog, said, “It’s not an anti-cake movement, it’s more like: If you’re going to spend a fortune to feed your guests at your wedding, you might as well feed them something you’re going to really enjoy, and that they’re going to really enjoy.”
She has featured ceremonies in which candied apples, churros and even schlopp, a Dr. Seuss-inspired parfait, take the place of the cake. Ms. Stallings said the couples’ challenge is making less formal substitutions look special.
Ms. Stallings added, “Candy buffets can be really colorful, and really playful, and have a real sense of fun.”
Last month I was interviewed for an article in an Irish magazine called U Magazine about women proposing to their boyfriends as part of Leap Day. Granted, I didn’t propose to Andreas on a Leap Day — I had no idea women needed a special day to propose. I proposed to him on New Year’s, when I felt like it.
Anyway, for a look at the whole “proposing to your boyfriend” phenomenon (and some revealing truths about how it worked out for me), you can read the article.
(Oh and PS: and we’ve got lots more proposal stories.)